Video: Play Soccer So They Can

If you play soccer or are a fan, you know why it’s called the Beautiful Game. Soccer is a global language that has the power to unify people. Last weekend, a group of players got together  in Los Angeles  so that others around the world can have the opportunity to play as well.

The event, called Play Soccer So They Can, was organized by Opportunitas Aequas (Latin for “Equal Opportunity), a non-profit, grassroots organization that uses soccer to build stronger communities for youth in Rwanda and Uganda affected by war and violence.

Meet pro soccer player Jill Oakes and event organizer Becca Clyde (representing the all-girl Pretty Tough FC team) and check out the day’s action:

What can you do to help?:
You join the
facebook group,
Watch the YouTube
videos, share with a
friend, attend a meeting
or event, share with your team,
buy a t-shirt, donate 5 dollars, get
your team or group to do something,
each donate, get t-shirts for your adult
league jerseys, team fundraiser, have a table
at your next tournament or facility or the school
you coach at, get your kids involved, show the vide
at work, have a ball drive, have a recycle equipment drive
for local kids, create a fundraiser, create a benefit game, create
a tournament, talk to your local school, league, pro team about doing
something, start a soccer team where there is a need, host a race, bake sale, concert, festival, host an on-going event, monthly/biweekly soccer game, seasonal or weekly fundraiser, show the video to a new school each month, etc.

Surf Dog Competition this weekend – Oct. 11

Dogs and their owners will head to Surf City USA (Huntington Beach) this weekend to show off their board skills while raising funds for animal welfare organizations. The Inaugural Surf City Surf Dog sounds like a great event so if you’re in SoCal, this might be worth checking out.

Dogs will compete in surfing heats based on their size, with small, medium and large dogs judged on a variety of skills — including length of the ride, the size of the wave and confidence on the board.

For those happier to keep their paws on the sand, contests, fun activities and an expo will be included in the daylong event. A 2-mile Woofin’ Walk, K-9 Kayaking, dog-and-owner look-alike contests, best celebrity impersonations and a costume contest will also be held.

The event will begin at 8 a.m. at Dog Beach, located west of Pacific Coast Highway at Goldenwest Street. For more information or to register, visit www.surfcitysurfdog.com or e-mail info@bookthatevent.com.

File this under a Pretty Good idea.

Schedule – October 11, 2009

7:00 am                       Registration Opens

7:30 am – 2:00 pm    Hot Diggity Dog Expo

8:00 am                       1 or 2 Mile Woofin’ Walk Starts

SURF HEATS

8:20 – 8:50 am           Groms (Novice/NonCompetitive) Small Dog

8:55 – 9:25 am           Groms (Novice/NonCompetitive) Medium Dog

9:30 – 10:00 am         Groms (Novice/NonCompetitive) Large Dog

10:05  – 10:35 am      Groms (Novice/NonCompetitive) X Large Dog

10:40 – 11:00 am       Shredders (Competitive) Heat #1

11:05 – 11:25 am       Shredders (Competitive) Heat #2

SURF BREAK

11:30 – 12:00 pm       Best in Show Costume Contest & Owner or Celebrity Look-a-Like Contest

EXHIBITION

12:05 – 12:25 pm      Surfin’ for Paws-abilities:  Surf Dog Richochet & Patrick Ivison Tandem

SURF FINALS

12:30 – 1:30                 Surf Finals for all Divisions

1:45 – 2:00 pm            Results/Awards

Being a girl AND one of the guys

(Ed. Note: Author Jill Oakes is a professional soccer player who played last season in the WPS for the Chicago Red Stars)

I’m girly.  I sell jewelry, practice yoga, watch cooking shows,  Project Runway and What Not to Wear, and I LOVE dancing!  If I hadn’t discovered soccer, I would’ve wanted to become a dancer.  I’m also very emotional and sensitive, two typically feminine traits.  In fact, my sometimes overly sensitive alter ego has been nicknamed ‘Sensitivo’.  I’m not quite sure it needed a nickname, but it’s a running joke on me I guess.  Even so, having these “feminine” qualities does not inhibit my ability to be competitive, physical, or aggressive.  It’s the dynamic balance of both, feminine and masculine, that make female athletes so intriguing.

I am very proud to be a female athlete.  I love feeling strong and healthy, setting goals and achieving them, and challenging myself physically and mentally.  Although women are making great strides in their interest and participation in sports, I find myself amongst the boys quite often, whether they are other athletes, coaches, or fans.  These are moments when I feel particularly empowered and proud to be a woman.  It is a special quality to be able to hold your own or even dominate in any activity with the guys.  You empower what it means to be a girl.  You may not realize it, but girls everywhere benefit when you publicly display your strengths, athletic or otherwise.  You’re sending a message.  When you see one girl do it, it suddenly becomes possible for all girls to do it too.

Personally, I made my first conscious statement to the world challenging a stereotype, when I became a high school cheerleader.  Yes, it’s 100% true.  I was telling the world that cheerleaders deserve athletic respect, and that athletes are beautiful and feminine too.  I was both captain of the varsity soccer team and co-captain of the varsity cheerleading team at the same time.  How about that?

I’ll admit it, sometimes it’s just fun to feel like one of the boys.  Last Sunday, I played in the annual America Scores, charity 7 vs. 7 soccer tournament at the Home Depot Center in Carson, and was one of only two girls competing in the top bracket.  My good friend and ex-Pali Blues teammate, Liz Bogus, and I represented for all the ladies out there!  America Scores is a nonprofit organization that utilizes soccer, writing and creative expression to empower urban community children to be healthy and create change in the world.  I always love offering myself for admirable causes.  Throughout the week, I also joined an MLS player for a technical skills soccer training session, and had an intense cardio/strength training session with three of my fellow male Yoga Naga Training peers.  Finally, on Saturday, my friend, Dave, and I organized a Girls vs. Boys pick-up 5 vs. 5 soccer game.  And if I’m not mistaken, I do believe the girl’s team won… Yes. Yes we did!  :)

So what DOES it mean to be girl?  At one time, we were only cheerleaders, while boys were told not to play “like a girl.”  Nowadays, girls are tackling, competing, and enduring physical and emotional pain for success in their sport.  ‘Female’ is an evolving phenomenon.  And I believe we, as girls, control our own definition.  To me, there’s no right or wrong way to be.  There’s no “supposed to.”  You are born female, and from that moment on, everything you do for the rest of your life will contribute to what being a girl means.  You represent all girls.

We are so much more than ourselves.  I am more than just Jill Oakes, the soccer player.  I am a woman, a sister, a daughter, an auntie, an American, a Californian, a Bruin (go UCLA!), a human, etc.  We stand for so many things simultaneously.  But, I believe it is our actions that define us.  We are what we do.  And in defining ourselves, we define our associated groups.  Our actions reflect on our families, races, communities, teams, and, most certainly, genders, while inspiring others to be more than what they already are.

So today, what will you do that defines you?  What action big or small will you take?  I advise you to act on purpose.